Happy New Year, friends!
It’s been a while huh? Well my family and I had a wonderful couple of weeks together! Lots of eating, playing, shopping and TV watching. We got into Breaking Bad over the holiday and Mike and I are HOOKED! We are half way through season 3 and I look forward to catching up!
Over the holidays we eat more than usual and exercise less than usual. I just want you guys to know that you shouldn’t beat yourselves up. “Tomorrow is another day” or “Dinner is another meal.” is a good motto. Of course, don’t abuse it or confuse it with “I’ll start Monday.” Being able to enjoy your self and move on from it is a powerful thing. It is important to recognize it and be okay with it. Start at your next meal with clean eating. Have a dialogue with your body, A kind one even if you’re not putting the best things in it—food for your soul is something we all need time to time!
One of my favorite things about yoga is setting an intention in the beginning of class. Whenever things get tough I reflect back on that intention and it helps get me through those more challenging asanas. I took that with me off the the mat over the holidays.
(all natural red velvet cupcakes)
My intention was to be present not miss a moment with my family. Enjoy good food, and bake my heart out and enjoy what I was making for my family without beating myself up about sugar or calories. I am fully aware of how sugar makes me feel. How tight my muscles were going to be and how much my skin would probably freak out. But I was okay with it. Just be okay with your decisions and move on from it. I know that how I was eating at meals was still (sometimes) on point. I know that I will still get to the gym and that come January 2nd (aside from leftover natural cheesecake-recipe soon!-in the fridge) that would not be my constant. I don’t bake 200 cookies every day and test a few. I don’t like how I feel after just two days of eating poorly..it actually motivates me even MORE to put the best, wholesome, most nutrient-dense foods in my body!I probably gained a little weight, in fact, I know my pants are tighter and my stomach is 3x the size
but I am okay with it for now because I know I will work hard to be where I need to be.
Weezy loved helping me bake. I made an organic, no refined sugar vanilla bean cheesecake with a raw pecan almond crust…so amazing!
If I had to pick three words for my intentions for 2013 they would be:
fearlessness,
acceptance
and confidence.
Fear-I often go through life scared of new things. It’s when I challenge myself or go out of my comfort zone that I really feel alive. Yoga teacher training has been one of my best decisions in 2012. Even though I am a fitness professional, this was something new and different and challenging, not only physically but emotionally, that I probably wouldn’t have tried 4 years ago.
Acceptance—I need to accept myself for who I am. When you accept yourself, and are okay with it instead of constantly criticizing and looking for things to change. We all have room to grow, but what does that even mean if we don’t already accept who we are?
Confidence. I have it to an extent, but have always struggled with this one. It’s about making a decision and sticking with it. Holding your head up and believing in your abilities.
If I had to add a fourth it would definitely be to be more present. It should be first on the list, but I think being present could relate to any of those three in one way or another.
I hope you all had a lovely holiday! If you had to choose an intention for 2013 what would it be?
Talk Soon,
L
















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Great post! I’m sure 2013 will be great for you… almost as great as that cheesecake!
Almost….
I love the idea of setting intentions for the new year. I think my intenstion would have to be fluidity. I am a big stresser and planner to say the least. In 2013 I hope to be able to go with the flow more and stress less about things I cannot control. Happy New Year to you and your beautiful family!
That’s a great intention! I need more of your planning…I am the opposite…happy medium, that’s all we can ask for!
I working on self-confidence too! My intent is to put my health first again and learn to be more positive!
Great one!
there aren’t many people healthier than you though! You are always on point with your fitness!
Welcome back from the holidays LAury! I have to say I am glad to see them go! It was a busy few weeks, too much traveling, too much eating, but lots of good times with family (so I guess I’ll take it). I LOVE your intentions for 2013 and I love how you refer to them as intentions vs goals…adds a whole different dimension. Since I’m getting my body back, I feel my confidence growing but I AM still so self conscious over my chest. It is huge. It is embarrassing….but at least I can say I am doing the best thing for my baby. I was wondering though, did you ever start to feel super drained while nursing? I feel like I am at a point where prenatals and good eating just aint cutting it! I know I’m sleep deprived but I seriously feel like nutrients are going only to Hannah and not me! Just curious if you had any of these problems and how you dealt! Thanks!
Hmmm…now that you mention it I remember being drained A LOT but never attributed it to nursing! It makes sense though! My nails have been so funky since giving birth I will say..think it has something to do with what you’re saying! I think I need to start supplementing with cod liver oil
Welcome back and happy new year! My intention for to 2013 is to establish/restore balance : )
Happy new year, Keri!
i’ve been wondering where you went! my intention is fearlessness. this year i will adapt to every change with grace and will take risks and show that fearlessness is going to help me truly ‘live’ in 2013. it’s happening already. . .
I like it. Especially after what you talked about on your blog. You are amazing!
Happy New Year!! Those are some great intentions! I’m working on things but didn’t make any specific resolutions… so I guess it’s all about the intentions!
Happy New Year, Julie!
Great post Laury. I love you intentions that you’ve set up! And you’re so right, we need to be kind to ourselves. Even if we aren’t feeding our bodies the best foods, we need to be kind to ourselves, otherwise it doesn’t make us want to make changes anyways. I definitely like the idea of setting intentions for the year instead of resolutions…since I never accomplish those;)
Definitely, Lisa! We always have to be kind to ourselves in one way or another!
Happy New Year Laury!
I totally agree with you about going all out for baking over the holidays. I almost never use white flour and sugar anymore but for Christmas I HAVE to bake my favorite cookies!
My goal this year is to reduce the amount of grains and sugar i eat, even though I already have made a big improvement, and just focus on eating greens and other veggies on a daily basis!
yea…no grain-free cookies here fr Xmas! Loved every bite to!
Do you listen to NPR at all? Yesterday on the Diane Rehm show, she had Dr. Robert Lustig on to talk about his new book “Fat Chance,” and you would have LOVED him. He did not hold back telling people about how evil sugar and processed food was. They would take callers, and it was like an “Oh SMACKA!” a minute. Here’s the link if you want to take a listen.: http://thedianerehmshow.org/shows/2013-01-07/dr-robert-lustig-fat-chance-beating-odds-against-sugar-processed-food-obesity-and-d
I do sometimes but missed that one! I had no idea he was going to be on there. I love Robert Lustig…thank you so much for sharing!That’s awesome! I can’t wait to listen…